Goodbye July. Hello August.

Milan in JulyIsn’t my daughter, Milano Nguyen, adorable? 

Hi guys,

I’m well aware that I didn’t blog much in July. And it wasn’t because I went on an extended vacation or I was too preoccupied with my day jobs or I ran out of ideas to write about. I purposely took a short break from looking at, drooling over, thinking about and blogging about fashion. I figured I would benefit from some time away from it all. And I seriously did.

I miss talking to you guys.

It’s officially August. Here’s what I have in store for you this month:

- More about my trips to France and Portugal earlier this year. Crazy, I know. I feel terribly embarrassed at my procrastination.

- More about style inspiration, which I haven’t done since last year. Partly because I was lazy. Partly because there really wasn’t any celebrity whose style truly bowled me over. However, I have found a few, and I’m quite smitten with them. You guys are going to love it, I guarantee.

- More about fall/winter 14 shoes, which have started trickling in online and in store.

- And lastly, more rumination on life. So many terrible things have happened around the world for the last few months.

OK, that’s about it for a quick housekeeping post. Thanks guys for sticking around. Guess I’ll see you during the weekend.

Sintra, It’s About Both You and Me…

Spectacular panoramic view of the town of Sintra. Most likely the highest vantage point I have ever hiked to. 

I feel utterly awful saying this, but I do not recall most of the economic knowledge I learned in college. And I was an Economics major. (Shhhh! Do NOT tell my parents that. They would have a heart attack if they knew the money they had spent on me has gone down the toilet.) However, there is this one economic principle called the law of diminishing marginal productivity that I vaguely remember. In economic terms, it has something to do with increased production and decreased profitability. Or something along the line. ECON 101 Professor, if you ever read this, I am truly sorry!

In layman’s terms, though, it means going more places does not always guarantee more satisfaction.

A common pitfall among most travelers is trying to see as much as humanely possible with a limited amount of time. It is understandable, right? Because our time and money are limited while the world is not. But when I really think about it, I wonder what the point is if I fail to truly appreciate a place because I am too pooped to do that while I’m there? Or what the point is if I visit a place just because it is a supposedly must-see only to find it not all it is cracked up to be? Yeah sure, it will count toward the number of places I have been to and thus give me some bragging right, but really when all is said and done, what do I do with some random blurred memories?

Not bad, I have to admit.

I learned the lesson on my day trip to Sintra, which is approximately 40 minutes by train from Lisbon. I should have known that my body and mind deserved a good rest after 7 hours sitting up straight on the Seville-Lisbon overnight bus, 2 hours napping on a very uncomfortable bench at Lisbon Oriente Station, 30 minutes holding very tightly to the pole next to the bus’s main door to avoid being thrown off balance and to the belief that the non-English speaking driver fully understood what I had told him about where I needed to get off, and another 30 minutes literally climbing the crazy hilly streets of Lisbon with a suitcase and 25 pounds on my shoulders. In reality, I overestimated myself and marched on to Sintra without even having a proper breakfast. The next 12 hours in a nutshell revolved around climbing and climbing some more in a state of starvation and thirst. Oh and with two feet full of blisters!

Apparently, I was still alert enough to notice and capture this beautiful mid-morning light in Sintra.

Yeah I was super awake when taking this photo. I mean, at this height I had to be whether I wanted to or not. Here is one of the inner walls of Castle of the Moors, perched on top of the Sintra Mountains. I could have captured something more magnificent, but naturally scared of height, I climbed down rather than climbed up. Far on the horizon is the Atlantic Ocean, I think. 

In close proximity to Lisbon, Sintra is the ideal day-trip destination. If you are into history and ruins, Royal Palace, Castle of the Moors, Pena Palace and some other sites will surely quench your thirst for knowledge. If nature is your thing, then you will get physical thanks to the mountains, hills and forests. It is a UNESCO heritage site for a reason, after all. That is why it took me a while to shake off the feeling that there was something inherently wrong with me when I described the whole experience as relatively underwhelming to the Lisbon residents at my hotel. In their words, I was the very first one in history who was not bowled over by Sintra. Lucky for me, I felt no trace of contempt in the way they said it.

So if, for whatever reason, I had to single out the highlight of my time in Sintra, it would be the two lovely couples from Italy and England respectively I met. I came to Sintra with the expectation that I would explore the place by myself. But interestingly enough, I was accompanied by fellow travelers from the moment I arrived til the moment I left.

An impossibly nice and lovely Italian couple who gave me a ride to Pena Palace and so helped me save 4 euros. English couple not pictured. 

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Should You Wear Your Summer Linen Sport Coats?

Living in a South East Asia country has made me realize that the only two redeeming qualities of summer are the daily copious amount of vitamin D and the opportunities to wear linen. Sounds foolish and unappreciative, but it’s true. To me, summer has never ever been synonymous with things like #vacations, #fun, #tan, #lookinggood or #lifeisgood. What it has always involved, instead, are nauseating heat, humidity, sweat and unreciprocal feelings.

That’s why I always feel baffled and envious when I see street-style photos of guys who look so clean and suave in the middle of summer. How on earth are they able to pull off a suit when it’s not less than 60 degrees out? I have been to Europe, so I can see that summer there is usually more pleasant than it’s in New York and Asia. But it’s certainly not even remotely close to the suit kind of temperature.

What I noticed after hundreds of photos is that many of those guys were wearing linen suits.

Now, there’s nothing new about linen being an essential summer fabric. WSJ loves it. NYTimes is all for it, too. Even I have talked about it over and over again on the site, but wearing a lot of linen at the same time when summer is in full swing is an entirely different story.

Curious, I decided to recreate the look to see if I’d be drenched in sweat and look like the ultimate trainwreck. I figured if wearing a linen blazer were doable in the almost repulsive 95 degrees, it would be cake in Milan and Paris especially when the quality of those guys’ linen is probably higher and more expensive than that of mine. So, I pulled my favorite linen items in the closet out.

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All Hail the Peacocks (Part 2)



As you guys already know, I was internet-deprived for almost 12 days. I don’t want to sound melodramatic or make it sound like my entire life depends on the internet, but those 12 days were absolutely agonizing, emotionally and financially. To get my online work done, I had to stay late at the office or go there much more frequently than I’d have liked to. Which made me feel a bit sick to my stomach. And then when it was close, I had to go to coffee shops, all of which of course cost money. The economic damage was real.

So, the fact that internet is back on again deserves a celebration. And I can’t think of a better way to celebrate than to look at good clothes on good-looking men during this season’s fashion weeks. When I celebrate something, I don’t want to go small or intimate. So below I serve you with 40-plus photos culled from various sites. You’re more than welcome!

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All Hail the Peacocks (Part 1)

I’m not going to apologize for intermittent posting schedule today because I’m so fucking tired of saying sorry. If anything, I’m the one who deserves an apology here. Not from you my beloved readers because you have done nothing wrong. But from the fucking internet provider who has cut off my internet for the past 10 days for the purpose of “maintenance”. I called over and over and over again, and they apologized over and over and over and over again but still no fucking internet, and worse no exact date of when the process will be complete.

(In case you’re wondering, I’m typing this from the office on Saturday morning. I’m feeling quite pathetic right now.)

OK, enough whining. Let’s get back to business.

Somebody I follow on Twitter tweeted the following the other day:

“All the peacocks have descended upon Florence…”

I regret not having tweeted a reply immediately to that person, thanking him (or maybe her) for making me laugh so hard that my abs got a solid workout. Isn’t it ridiculously hilarious that pea-cocks (pun intended) now mean well-dressed men? Haha.

However, there’s no denying that all these peacocks have made fashion weeks much more exciting and inspiring.

Before you proceed, pull the lap bar down because seeing all these photos is going to be one hell of an emotional rollercoaster. First, you will be in awe of these men, wondering how they dress so well.

Then, you will inevitably feel inferior, questioning why you don’t look half as good and when, if ever, you will be able to afford that Prada coat and Vuitton bag, and even then whether you really have the knack for putting together an eye-capturing outfit.

Then, you mumble to yourself: OK, maybe they are attention-whores. They want to get photographed, so they go an extra mile for their outfits. You’re not one of them so if you ever found yourself going to fashion weeks, it would be all about appreciating the collections.

Eventually, you realize that you’re just being jelly and that these men know how to make what they wear work for them. And you can really learn a thing or two from them.


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Trend Spotting at LCM: Yellow

collageFrom left to right: DKNY, Topman Design, Richard Nicoll, Jonathan Saunders and Hardy Amies. 

Watch out for yellow this time next year. Yellow hasn’t figured prominently in my wardrobe yet, but I don’t mind adding some more doses of yellow come next spring/summer season.

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I Left My Heart at Burberry


Every time I watch a Burberry Prorsum show, I get extremely emotional. Partly because of the music. Partly because of the drop-dead gorgeous clothes. I feel like Christopher Bailey has this uncanny ability to read my mind (and that of million others obviously) and so designs clothes that I truly want to have. Yesterday’s show was no exception. The inspiration behind it was Bruce Chatwin and his unceasing wanderlust. I don’t know Bruce Chatwin, but when I read about the wanderlust part, I got chills all over my body because I know that all-consuming desire to travel and see different places so damn well. So, in a sense, the show was no longer simply about clothes. To me, it was about validation, that it’s alright to have that feeling of wanting to try different places…Anyway, the clothes was so beautiful that they deserve a post of their own, so here we go: my 10 absolutely favorite looks from the show yesterday.







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It’s Time for a Booty Call

Fashion is such a weird industry. There’s no such thing as “living in the moment” in fashion. It’s always about racing against time, creating and predicting trends for next seasons. I have such deep respect for fashion designers because of that. My head would explode if I constantly had to think about what the world should wear 6 months in advance. Heck, I don’t even want to think about how my own life is going to look like in the next six months.

That being said, I have no problem whatsoever with the fact that we consumers get to hoard as much as we possibly can during the end of the season to prepare for the next season. I mean, most e-retailers are discounting fall/winter stuff like crazy. Even though it’s summer, we should take advantage of that so we don’t have to buy anything when fall/winter seasons roll around.

I know you guys just put your winter boots away, but trust me now is the best time to expand your…repertoire of boots. So many fantastic boots that we wouldn’t be able to afford full-price. Here are a few pairs that I think are utterly worth having. My criteria is pretty simple: head-turning yet versatile. Happy shopping!

1. Paul Smith Jeans Khaki Leather Leopard Chuka Boots, $276.


2. Mark Mcnairy Khaki Camo Shortwing Boots, $381.


 3. Comme Des Garons Shirt Red Plaid Desert Boots, $284.


4. Junya Watanabe Green And Cognac Lace_up Ankle Boots, $530.


5. Acne Studios Black Leather Chukka Botos, $469.

6. Thom Browne Navy Longwing Mariner Ankle Boots, $488.


7. Saint Laurent Black Leather Chelsea Boots, $682.



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OK, That’s It. The Ultimate Color to Wear This Summer

Victoria Beckham

Hey guys- If you are still looking for advice on what color you should wear this summer to look effortlessly cool and stylish, I think you can stop right now. Why? Because when both fashion god Ryan Gosling and fashion goddess Victoria Beckham endorse something, you know it’s real good stuff.

I almost fell off my chair when I saw this light blue shirt on Victoria because I have an almost similar one that I used to wear when I was working office jobs. (The difference is mine cost only $20 while Victoria’s is probably like $2,000 from some high-profile designer.) Words can’t describe how much I love this outfit. It’s the most unexpected thing on Victoria in such a long while.

So what does this have to do with menswear? Blue shirt sounds like a run-of-the-mill item, but it’s so chic and versatile. Now go get all your blue shirts out and wear them to death this summer. Wear them with everything on every occasion. You’ll never regret!

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Who Wore It Better: Ryan Gosling or Moi?

confused dasher, ryan gosling style roll sleeves 2014, how to stay cool and stylish this summer menswear, all saints shirts, all saints brogue, american apparel unisex beltRyan Gosling wins hands-down. But that doesn’t mean yours truly loses. We’re just… different ;)

Hi Ryan Gosling fanatics,

Don’t you even try to send hate mails my way. This post is NOT my blasphemous attempt to upstage the Greek God reincarnated. I mean, seriously, how could I upstage that face and that body, not to mention that talent?

You guys know that I’m part of the tribe and that I worship at the altar of Ryan Gosling’s style. So, the point of this post simply is to pay homage to my fashion god. (I used to use the word crush, but it no longer even came close to describing my new-found devotion after this happened.)

In where I live, summer is just brutally hot. The heat and the humidity make the simple act of putting clothes on my body feel quite torturous. Fashion thus becomes irrelevant for the most part.

The bad news is life doesn’t stop when summer is in full force, meaning that I still have to be presentable when I go to places. But I believe I have found the perfect solution for that conundrum. Just a fitted light-colored shirt, slim-fit linen pants in navy blue, some skinny belt and a pair of seemingly beat-up shoes. That’s it. I have always known that it kind of works, but now that Ryan has proved that it actually works like a charm, I have no doubt left whatsoever. Remember this: When Ryan says something is alright, it’s really alright.

In both outfits: All Saints Shirts, United Colors of Benetton Linen Pants, American Apparel Unisex Basic Leather Belt, All Saints Brogues & Warby Parker Glasses.

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